I had 40 years of experience in feeling doubtful of myself, of feeling that I was the victim of my education, upbringing and parenting, I felt uncertain of myself, never feeling I was enough, and I felt hopeless, helpless, and at times… many times, worthless.
… until one day, I decided that enough is enough.
The frustration that I had been feeling for years, accumulating, and building up, coupled with my habitual internalization, finally brought about breakthroughs that rippled in my daily life, at work, in my career, everywhere!
The results? Well, let’s say that the past years of lockdown, uncertainties, and disasters around us have been the best years of my life… yet!
How were yours?
I am not saying this to brag… I am just showing you and hopefully help you realize that if I did it, anyone can… and much faster than it took me, because I already went through it and I can help you go through it with you! 😊
How much frustration have you been building up so far?
How much momentum of patterns of negative thoughts have you been maintaining?
Do you expect to keep feeling like this for long?
Do you want this to be your life for the next 10, 15, 20 years?
I got your back!
Why?
Because I have been there myself, and I believe that we all deserve to feel good, to feel better than yesterday, that we have a potential that constantly expands as we progress towards our next new desire, I believe that we are too much in our heads sometimes and that we can get in touch with ourselves a bit more and by doing so we are more focused in moving forward towards what we truly want without being dragged down by the circumstances around us and we remain focused on the prize; our fulfillment!
I am a possibilist, a catalyst of your transformation, the transformation of your mindset, of your life! I am the spark that sets your desires to become burning and that will propel you forward and upward.
I will not take away your experience of going through what you are going through, but I will help you go through this faster, easier, so that you can still learn from this experience from your unique vantage point and at the same time move on towards your goals and wants.
I am dynamic, energetic and I am passionate to see people transform and transcend their self-imposed limitations and to see them flourish in any areas of their lives and see them expand and feel more fulfilled as they let go of what does not serve them any longer. There is nothing more thrilling to me than to feel the aliveness inside of me and to see it spark something in someone else that inspires YOU to act and move towards your true burning desires.
I know the power of mindset, the influence of intentions and focus, that of positive thoughts and of deliberate action. I know the limitations of trying too hard, of thinking too much, of being too much in our heads, of being too serious about eeeeeeeverything, the danger and damage and self-sabotaging of victimization and of self-pity. And I know the power of taking ownership of our own lives, of taking things one step at a time and of building the momentum that helps us move from surviving to living, to thriving, to never-ending expansion, the potence of our state of mind and the power of our true desires and excited action!
I am a mentor, a teacher, an uplifter to the core of my being and I find such satisfaction when someone tunes in to the power of their own desires, clear intentions and deliberate actions aligned with their being!
That’s what I’m very good at: I’m very good at drawing the best in people, and helping you discover what your true burning desire really is and help you tune in to it, align your actions towards it, to help you tune in to the better version of yourself that you want to become, to assist you to feel more resourceful, more fulfilled, more inspired, so that in turn, you will become more inspiring those around you.
Ooohhhh, I will call you on your BS (Belief Systems) and help you break through, shift your paradigms, help you get rid of what is not serving you any longer now, help you get out of your own way with thought provoking, new perspectives, I will challenge these beliefs and help you focus on moving on towards what the future holds for you, to what you want to accomplish and what you want for yourself.
Whether it is for your work, your business, your department, your life,… there is no such thing as “just business”… everything is personal, it is about the person!
YOU are the common denominator is all these equations, and it starts with you.
This unique blend of the use of NLP tools to understand your mindset, how your mind works and how it impacts everything you think, say, and do, the process of coaching, the years of experience in Strategy gelled with my personal experience of what I have been through myself is a fantastic recipe for success.
From our first interactions, you will see, hear and feel change happen, very slightly at first, or stronger, depending on how much you want to get on with your life, and the momentum will pick up rapidly because I will be present, really present with you, focused and I will hold that vision of your desire and of the better-version-you that you want to become once you have shown it to me.
If you are willing to do the work, results will be evident to you and to those around you because I will keep you focused on what you want while helping you move away from the old story that you have been telling yourself for way too long and that has been holding you back from moving towards your potential and towards the accomplishment of what you really want!
If you do not act now, what will your life be like 1 year from now? 5 years from now? 10 years from now?
And if you do not take action now, then when?
So, if you resonate with this, if you want true changes in your life, personal or professional, if you are ready to take things in your own hands and do the work, it is ALL about YOU.
It starts with you, and it starts NOW, with you making the firm decision that you want to move forward.
Are you ready to meet the new you?
Contact me now and let’s get this moving, shall we?
Breathe, and stay centered
Xav